Archive for May 19th, 2009

LEAVING YOUR CHILDREN SOMETHING TO LOVE BY/SOME ANSWERS TO THESE MISASSUMPTIONS REGARDING SEXUALITY: THEY SAID YOU COULD END UP PREGNANT IF YOU START KISSING AND STUFF AND DON’T HAVE PROTECTION

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

In school they taught us to always have contraception available. They said you could end up pregnant if you start kissing and stuff and don’t have protection.

FIFTEEN-YEAR-OLD BOY

Being old enough to have sex means being old enough to be totally! responsible for yourself and your behaviors. That includes not having children if you don’t want or can’t handle them. If you are not ready for children, you are not ready for intercourse. But don’t think that just because you kiss and are feeling romantic that you should! automatically think of intercourse and contraception. I tell all of the young people I talk to that they should not have intercourse until they are married. Plain and simple, just don’t do it. Touch, hold kiss, and love, but no intercourse. If you have learned a lot about contraception, you are really far ahead because that’s very important knowledge. If you have learned that you must or almost automatically will have intercourse because you are a sexual person,! you have learned the wrong lesson. Such sex should not mean intercourse. No matter what you hear, self-control is just as important as birth control, and contraception never replaces self- and partner responsibility. Saying no is an excellent contraceptive.

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